Banksying: Is This the New Dating Trend Worse Than Ghosting?

Navigating the world of modern dating can feel like traversing a minefield, and just when you thought you’d seen it all, a new, even more perplexing trend emerges: Banksying.

What is Banksying?

Banksying, seemingly named after the elusive artist Banksy, involves creating a sense of mystery and intrigue, only to disappear suddenly and without explanation. It’s similar to ghosting, but with an added layer of confusion. While ghosting is simply ceasing all communication, Banksying can involve a period of intense connection and communication before the sudden vanishing act. This leaves the other person wondering what went wrong, questioning their own perceptions, and feeling even more disoriented than traditional ghosting.

Why is Banksying so Hurtful?

The sudden disappearance after a period of seeming connection can be particularly jarring. It leaves individuals questioning themselves and the genuineness of the interaction. This can be more damaging than ghosting because it fosters a deeper sense of insecurity and self-doubt.